Concerned Veterans of Louisiana Inc.
concerned veterans of louisiana inc.
111 Jenna Dr
Schriever, LA 70395
ph: 985-448-1790
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" WHY I WANT TO BUILD HEROES' MONUMENT "
My name is Tommy Tabor, of Thibodaux, LA. I am spear heading a group of Veterans, firefighters, and law enforcement officers to help build Heroes' Monument.
I want people to go to Heroes' Monument, and know they are safe, and can pay their respect to a decease loved one in comfort.
I began, my drive in 1991, when the Veteran Memorial Monument was blown over, by a rain storm, one night. The monument laid in the grass in Heroes' Park. I would go there and cut the grass around the fallen marble plates myself .The park maintenance dept. would cut around the area with a tractor, but no one would trim around the fallen plates.The people who collected money for, and built the monument, in my mind , turned their backs on this monument. I begged the park administrator to pick up the marble plates and rebuild the monument. I went to the Lafourche Parish Council Meeting to do away with the destroyed monument and build a new one. At that time, I got no, help from the the parish or the recreation park administrator, with this monument. I set out to build a new monument for these reasons;
Veteran Memorial Monument was built for K.I.A.( Killed In Action ) soldiers only. The soldier had to be killed on the battle field and had to be a resident of Lafourche Parish when he left for the service. There are no names of Veterans ( Person receiving a discharge other than Dishonorable, from the military service, living or deceased ) , P.O.W. ( Prisoner of War ), M.I.A. ( Missing in Action ), or Missing and Presumed Dead, on that monument.
The monument I want to build, would honor any and all persons who entered the service, but did not receive a Dishonorable Discharge from the military.
I have been working on this goal for 16 years. I tried building it as a member and Post Commander of V.F.W. Post 5097. I was rejected by a small group of veterans who controlled the post. For reasons, beyond my control, they thought, I would use the post funds, to build the monument. I wanted help, from veterans through the V.F.W. A small donation, voted on by the membership, would have been nice.
I started V.V.n.W La. Post #4, to try another route, with different veterans. Things were going good until a click formed and got in good with the national office. The click wanted Heroes' Monument to belong to the V.V.n.W. Organization. I refused doing that, because I wanted this monument to be run and maintained by local veterans. I did not want any politics involved in this monument, except for support by donations.
I started Concerned Veterans of Louisiana Inc. , to keep this monument under local control. I went to the I.R.S. and in Sept. 2002, to get Concerned Veterans of Louisiana Inc. , Classified as a 501 C-3, Nonprofit, Charitable, Corporation. By doing this, any and all donations could be Tax Deductible . We are legal in all aspects of the word.
The people in this small community are having a problem adjusting to having such a large monument in their community.Should you have any questions, feel free to contact me on the Officers page . I will be proud to answer any questions. I would also like to," thank you " for participating in this project.
I think the cost of the monument, is what makes people leery, about helping me build this monument. I now went to the Lafourche Parish Council, and asked them for help again. This council agreed, to help and form Heroes' Monument Commission, so we would be a board of the council. Now that we are a board of the council, we can ask the tax payers of the parish to vote a millage so we can purchase the property for the monument.
I know, with a combination of the millage, grants and donations from individual, and corporation, we will have enough to purchase this property. We will seek the millage only, and only if we can not get the grants and donations to purchase the property. The property is needed so we can sell tiles to veterans and supporter, in order to build the monument. I lost two good friends because of early death.
1.Wayne Daigle was a Law enforcement Officer who died at a young age.
2. Micheal Oncale was a Volunteer Fire Chief who died at a young age.
After these two friends died, I decided to add two monuments to the Military Monument, and the three ( 3 ) monuments would be considered as one.This monument had nothing to do with 9/11. This monument would be called Heroes' Monument. I have surrounded myself with veterans, firefighters, and law enforcement officers, that want the same goal for Heroes Monument, as I do.We have a board of 9 members.
1. Five members are Veterans.
2. Two members are Fire Fighters.
3. Two members are Law Enforcement Officers.
Our members names are on the Heroes' Monument Commission Page of this web-site, should you want to contact them, for information on this project.
We are applying for grants through our C-3, but we also need people to purchase tiles or donate to a worthy cause.
We are, a 501 C-3, and our books are open to anyone with serious intentions to exam the books. I never had anything to hide, and now, we have nothing to hide.
V.V.n.W. Board Members said the post was not moving forward. I am here to tell them, I have moved forward and I plan to complete what I started. Here, I talk the talk, but with your help, I can, walk the walk.
Thank you for the time, you took out of your busy day, to check out our site.
" I will "
" Below, are two good poems I thought you would enjoy. Authors unknown ".
" Veteran’s Bride "
Let me tell you what it means,
To be a veterans bride.
You can spend many a lonesome day,
Standing by his side.
He doesn’t mean to shut you out,
It’s not his aim at all,
He truly cannot keep himself,
From putting up a wall.
Don’t think that he doesn’t love you,
He may rant or even yell.
He may not yet admit it but,
He’s going through some hell.
He may not talk about it,
May sit awhile and stare.
He may not hear you talking.
May not even know you’r there.
Often time he stares in silence.
Often times you see his tears.
Often times what is on his mind,
Has burdened him for years.
He needs to talk about it.
He needs to ease his mind.
He needs someone who’s been there,
With memories of his kind.
Times he opens up his heart,
And pours the memories out.
It may seem like days & days,
That’s all he talks about.
He can’t tell you that’s he’s hurt.
Can’t tell you that he’s confused.
The memories will not go away.
He feels that he’s been used.
He often nips his bottle,
He may take a pill or two
Anything to ease his mind,
Is what he’s apt to do.
Judging from his actions,
A wife will often deduct,
If he doesn’t gain control of this,
He’s set on self-destruct.
You can be there when he’s hurting,
You can let him know you care,
You can be his life companion,
But some things he can’t share.
It’s hard to be objective’
When you’re hurting deep inside,
It’s not an easy life you’ve chosen,
To be a veteran’s bride.
" Author Unknown"
Tommy Tabor / Web Master
" WHAT IS A VETERAN "
Some veterans bear visible signs of their service: a missing limb, a jagged scar, a certain look in the eye. Others may carry the evidence inside them: a pin holding a bone together, a piece of shrapnel in the leg.
Or perhaps another sort of inner steel: the soul's ally forged in the refinery of adversity. Except in parades, however, the men and women who have kept America safe wear no badge or emblem. You can't tell a vet just by looking.
What is a vet? He is the cop on the beat who spent six months in Saudi Arabia sweating two gallons a day making sure the armored personnel carriers didn't run out of fuel.
He is the barroom loudmouth, dumber than five wooden planks, whose overgrown frat-boy behavior is outweighed a hundred times in the cosmic scales by four hours of exquisite bravery near the 38th parallel.
She or he is the nurse who fought against futility and went to sleep sobbing every night for two solid years in DA Nang.
A veteran is the POW who went away one person and came back another or didn't come back AT ALL.
A veteran is the hard driving drill instructor who has never seen combat, but has saved countless lives by turning, no-account rednecks and gang members into Marines, and teaching them to watch each other's backs.
A veteran is the parade-riding Legionnaire who pins on his or her ribbons and medals with a prosthetic hand.
A veteran may be a career quartermaster who watches the ribbons and medals pass them by.
He is the three anonymous heroes in The Tomb Of The Unknowns,
Whose presence at the Arlington National Cemetery must forever preserve the memory of all the anonymous heroes whose valor dies unrecognized with them on the battlefield or in the ocean's sunless deep?
He is the old guy bagging groceries at the supermarket or a door greeter at the local discount store, who once helped liberate a Nazi death camp. She may be a nurse at the V.A. Hospital who once saved solders lives on the on the battlefields abroad. They wish all day long that their soul mate were still alive to hold them when the nightmares come.
A veteran is an ordinary and yet an extraordinary human being, a person who offered some of their life's most vital years in the service of their country, and who sacrificed their ambitions so others would not have to sacrifice theirs.
They are soldiers and saviors and swords against the darkness, and they are nothing more than the finest, greatest testimony on behalf of the finest, greatest nation ever known.
So remember, each time you see someone who has served our country, just lean over and say Thank You. That's all most people need, and in most cases it will mean more than any medals they could have been awarded or were awarded.
Two little words that mean a lot: "THANK YOU."
"It is the soldier, not the reporter, who has given us freedom of the press.
It is the soldier, not the poet, who has given us freedom of speech.
It is the soldier, not the campus organizer, who has given us the freedom to Demonstrate.
It is the soldier, who salutes the flag, who serves beneath the flag, and whose coffin is draped by the flag, who Feels the disrespect when a protester burn the flag.
"Author Unknown"
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concerned veterans of louisiana inc.
111 Jenna Dr
Schriever, LA 70395
ph: 985-448-1790
thetabe